Hi Jen,

I would think that our dear loving Heavenly Father would understand. I
believe He knows your heart, and I'm praying for you both in this situation.

Many lovings and squeezings for you both.

Love you,
Pat Ferguson



At 04:17 PM 7/18/05, you wrote:
>Hi all.  As most of you know, i am getting married in november.  I found out
>today from work that they want me to transfer in the beginning of august.  I
>can't tell them i won't transfer then because it is the end of our fiscal
>year august 31 and i could forfit my job.  Problem is though, that my
>fiancee and I decided that to save money... if i had to move in september or
>october we would just live together until the wedding.  We both don't really
>like the idea but it's like we have no choice.  I don't know what to do.
>I'm so confused... i don't know what is right and wrong.  Both my fiancee
>and I are born-again Christians, we will in no way have sex before marriage
>so if we made/make that pledge to god is living together before marriage a
>sin?  Is it wrong?  And what do i do if it is?  I know of other christian
>couples who have lived together before marriage.  I am just so scattered
>right now.  Please pray for clarity for me?  And above all, pray Gods will
>be done.
>I love you all.
>Jenifer Barr.
>When the trumpet blows... I'm outta here!
>AIM: jenibear1998
>msn
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