Rhonda,

It is easier at the moment isn't it, I mean our human nature to bail on our
responsibility in a situation. But, even though we've done that, and even
though there are people that will blame some one else adamately, deep
inside they know it is rong and don't feel great about it. And rather than
own up to making such a mistake, they then feel they have to defend their
stand even further, or be wrong on two accounts now.

Brad


At 10/30/2003 on Thursday, you wrote:
>That's just human nature, blame someone else.  I think the first step
>towards solving any type of progblem is taking personal responsibility
>for whatever part of the problem is ours, notalways an easy thing to do!
>much easier to blame the whole thing on the other person.
>Rhonda
>----- Original Message -----
>From: "B Dunse" <[log in to unmask]>
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>Sent: Thursday, October 30, 2003 1:33 PM
>Subject: Re: a law in marage
>
>
> > Mat,
> >
> > I believe Adam's basic response was not just that the woman gave me
>the
> > fruit, it was the woman you gave me God, gave me the fruit. Not a good
>idea
> > to blame the guy who set up the rules eh?
> >
> > Brad