Rhonda,
I too am glad that you were in service today and that the music blessed you.
Yes, it is hard for both of you and it is especially hard for Ben since he
has always been the provider and now isn't able to fill that role at this
time.  I don't have any magic words and I don't know what I cn tell you but
just keep your faith.  God will accomplish His will in you and in Ben.

I am praying,

Ned