It depends. Do you like the men you date? I think you are putting the cart
before the horse here. Take the disability out of the picture, and go from
there. If it seems like a match, put it back in, and figure how it figures
in--if at all.

Laura
wife of King (so he thinks) Kyle (right hemi-spasoid)
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From: "mom mhc" <[log in to unmask]>
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Sent: Tuesday, November 07, 2000 1:30 AM
Subject: Nondisabled men & Disabled Women?


> Hi all,
> I realize what I am about to ask is off-topic & very un-PC, but I still
> think its worthy of discussion. I have been trying to date after a ten
year
> marriage, and am curious about whether, as a woman who uses a cane due to
> CP, I should really expect to date nondisabled men?
>
> I haven't had such great experiences up to now. I think than somehow women
> are more accepting of a man with "flaws" of any sort, but that, in
general,
> men want more especially when it comes to physical appearence.
>
> My ex is more effected by his disability than I, although mine is more
> visible. I don't want to be a caretaker again. I just wonder if I'm
wasting
> my time trying to date nondisabled men.
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