> Is it that Joanne, or is it the fact that Jan has finally come to grip
> with something the AB person doesn't like to admit?  I've treated AB
> females as I wanted to be treated, with kindness, acceptance and
> compassion, yet where did it get me? Nowhere on the marriage counter.

I would assume that you treated woman with a disability "as you wanted to be
treated, with kindness acceptance and compassion" also. Did it get you any
further on the  marriage counter?
Joanne