At 09:36 PM 5/25/2001 -0500, you wrote:
>   Can I use a cathrator or diapers instead of needing to be taken to the
>toilet
>   every time?


I use an urinal and that's about it.  I have control of my bladder.  It is
much easier for me to use the bathroom with an urinal.  I have feelings in
my penis and the thought of using an cathrator hurts and I don't want to
sit in my pee all day because of diapers.  My sexual functions are very
important to me and my relationships and I would feel uncomfortable wearing
something that will hurt me in other ways.

Tim