Hi
I dated a disabled guy before, it didn't work out.  He had a learning
disability and he wasn't at my maturity level, so it didn't work out.
I'm not opposed to dating someone with CP as long as they are at my level
(I don't mean to sound like I'm better than anyone because I'm not).
Just stating the facts.  Anyway, haven't dated in 4 years, so it doesn't
matter anyway.

Cindy

On Wed, 8 Nov 2000 22:31:25 -0500 sara lynn weaver <[log in to unmask]>
writes:
> Dear Mike, I have ran into the same problem. and I have done what you
> are
> doing. I am 46 years old and the guys I have dated that was TABS
> have done me
> the same way. Thay have said some crude things to me. and treated me
> like I
> was stupid. and said, The reason I ask you out is I have never dated
> a Cripe
> before. and I wanted to know what it is like.  and I said I have >
never dated
> a hartless person before so I guess we both learned something new
> tonight.
> and that shout him up.This was just one of the guys of several dates
> I had
> like that.  So I know how you feel.  Being single is not so bad. I
> have some
> friends that care about me. and remember me on my birthday and
> Christmas. and
> I know if I needed them in a Emergency thay would be here for me.
> and I do
> not have to put up with the crude remarks. and someone wanting to
> date me
> just to find out what it is like to date someone with CP. Lynn
>
> "Michael H. Collis" wrote:
>
> > Well, here's one who wouldn't mind dating another person with c.p.
> :-)
> > I've had dates with outhers without disabilities, and I've had my
> heart
> > broken by females who were able bodied. After the last one, which
> was two
> > years ago, I decided I was not going to initiate a relationship
> with
> > another TAB.   I'm 45 years old and I've decided I don't need the
> > relationship baggage to live my life...
> > Having someone in my life WOULD be nice, but not necessary...
> > Mike
> >
> > Linda Wagner wrote:
> >
> > > Mike,
> > >
> > > Doesn't matter to me either way...I would be a hypocrite if I
> only said
> > > I'd date able-bodied guys!  I just haven't met any disabled guys
> that
> > > want to date me ;)
> > >
> > > Linda
>