Anthony,
I am not trained either and I am not offering a diagnosis but there
is a big difference between working relationships and personal ones.
Most problems occur with the personal. You are still not saying what
precipitated the explosion. I am gathering what happens is that you
explode and everyone is shocked and then it's over for you but others
are reeling. it's important how you feel about it after. I think you
may be able to learn to control these episodes. It is simply lack of
impulse control and many people suffer from this.
There is a diagnosis called intermittent explosive disorder. And
there is tons of information on the internet about it. My son
exploded last night after dinner. I am suggesting he see someone
about it but I doubt he'll listen.
Linda
At 12:19 PM 4/8/2006, you wrote:
>I don't know if my parents know what I have, and they're neither trained =
>in
>this area, so I'm not expecting them to diagnose me. My brother's =
>fianc=E9's
>parents asked the similar thing after I left last evening, they were =
>really
>concerned about me my mother tells me. I feel like writing them and
>explaining what happened but I don't know myself, I had a very positive
>evening on phones, I went to my parent's for supper after work, and =
>didn't
>last 10 minutes before exploding, and than asked to be taken home. This
>morning my mother reminded me of numerous times I have had explosions, =
>and I
>can remember at least 85% but the other 15% are news to me, but I know =
>my
>past and know my parents wouldn't lie about something like this. =20
>
>I'm going to go to a therapist of my choice, but it's embarrassing =
>because
>my family is well respected around the community, and we know several
>therapists. =20
>
>It's just weird because in front of PRC people and customers, I haven't =
>had
>any problems, and the majority of my work is very challenging, but I =
>somehow
>pull it off in no time. Just today I took care of a few major problems
>within seconds, would somebody with a mental illness be able to perform =
>like
>that and research whatever problems, I believe not. =20
>
>Thanks,=20
>Anthony=20
>Visit my website at www.anthonyarnold.net
>-----Original Message-----
>From: Cerebral Palsy List [mailto:[log in to unmask]] On Behalf =
>Of
>Linda Walker
>Sent: Saturday, April 08, 2006 3:55 PM
>To: [log in to unmask]
>Subject: Re: Larry King Live last night
>
>It's hard to tell Anthony without more information. Right after Case=20
>wrote his note about his wonderful family his father had him in tears=20
>and Case accused his dad of name calling, something Case never does.=20
>Dad called him a sniveler. He rarely snivels and I think they expect=20
>too much out of him, especially at 7.
>I have told my son he expects better behavior out of his kids than he=20
>does of himself.
>So back to your parents. Can you figure out what triggers your=20
>explosion? Are they not hearing something you say repeatedly? Do they=20
>think you are bipolar or something like that? What mental problem is=20
>being suggested? Just trying to get more info here?
>This may not be your problem at all. It could be something amiss in=20
>the family system that gets repeatedly played out. This happens even=20
>when people have the best of intentions towards one another.
>
>
>At 09:55 AM 4/8/2006, you wrote:
> >Mike,=3D20
> >
> >I know this may sound funny coming from a guy who sometimes appears to =
>=3D
> >have
> >everything moving in a positive direction with working, living =3D
> >independently
> >and enjoying weight lifting, but I sometimes too feel forced into a
> >lifestyle which my parents say is bull, and their tired having me =3D
> >complain
> >about feeling forced into something. My suggestion for you is to move =
>=3D
> >on,
> >it's your life, why not enjoy it, start seeing this gal before time =
>runs
> >out. =3D20
> >
> >Back to myself, I had another blow out with my parents, brother, his =
>=3D
> >fianc=3DE9,
> >and her parents happened to be there to witness it, and were shock =
>since =3D
> >I'm
> >supposed to be a intelligent individual very respected in augmentative =
>=3D
> >and
> >alternative communication (a field I love). After blowing up, I =3D
> >requested
> >to be driven home where my comfort zone is, so my father brought me =
>home =3D
> >and
> >left me to cool down. This morning we talked by telephone, and =3D
> >everybody
> >thinks I should get help with my emotions, and probably some medicine. =
>=3D
> >My
> >mom says this is 15 years late because I can be good for months and =
>than
> >just snap. I'm going to get help because I'm tired of the after =3D
> >feeling,
> >today I feel physically tired, and I have things to prepare for. I'm =
>=3D
> >just
> >scared of the therapist saying I can't work (something I definitely =3D
> >enjoy,
> >and am one of the better technicians at PRC for working out whatever).
> >Another concern is the mental illness label, I don't want that =
>effecting =3D
> >the
> >way I'm seen by the company and our customers, I want to figure out =3D
> >their
> >future communication devices, something I'm good at. =3D20
> >
> >Bobby always said this list was caring, and I definitely need guidance =
>=3D
> >now.
> >
> >
> >Thanks,=3D20
> >Anthony=3D20
> >Visit my website at www.anthonyarnold.net
> >
> >-----Original Message-----
> >From: Cerebral Palsy List [mailto:[log in to unmask]] On Behalf =
>=3D
> >Of
> >Kendall David Corbett
> >Sent: Saturday, April 08, 2006 1:49 PM
> >To: [log in to unmask]
> >Subject: Re: Larry King Live last night
> >
> >Mike,=3D3D20
> >=3D3D20
> >Who is preventing you from seeing this woman? I assume you are both of =
>=3D
> >=3D3D
> >legal age and are in charge of your own affairs. There are several =
>=3D3D
> >reliable forms of birth control that could be used that don't involve =
>=3D
> >=3D3D
> >permanently precliding the option of children.
> >=3D3D20
> >Kendall
> >
> >=3D3D20
> >________________________________
> >
> >From: [log in to unmask] [mailto:[log in to unmask]]
> >Sent: Fri 4/7/2006 7:54 PM
> >To: [log in to unmask]
> >Subject: Re: Larry King Live last night
> >
> >
> >
> >I have been prevented from seeing a woman I've known for years on the
> >assumption that she'll end up pregnant. I would love to have a =3D3D
> >committed
> >relationship, but it just hasn't happened yet.
> >
> >Walk away before I finish what you started. Face to face I will put =
>you =3D
> >=3D3D
> >in
> >your place. End this game before I finish what you started. Face to =
>=3D3D
> >face
> >everything will change.
> >
> >"Stand Up" by Trapt
> >
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