guys,
  i emailed everyone involved in the rudeness thread and pointed out a few
things very gentlely and ask for a chill out. i normally do not do this as a
list administrator, but, this time i did. this is only the 2nd time in a
year and a half. lets take kats advice and chill out.

-----Original Message-----
From: Kathleen Salkin [mailto:[log in to unmask]]
Sent: Tuesday, April 23, 2002 1:08 PM
To: [log in to unmask]
Subject: Re: Meir


You know, I was going to stay out of it, but your rudeness is making me
angry enough to respond.

Jenn, you asked us for our advice and we gave it to you.  It's too bad it's
not what you wanted to hear, but that's life.  I think it's telling that no
one so far has really agreed with you regarding writing the team in London
about the trials.  So you need to learn from that and move on.

No, I'm not your mother and I'm not trying to be.  I'm just another person
with CP who does understand something about pain and life.

Kyle was blunt, but spot-on, in my opinion.  If that angers you, sorry, but
I happen to agree with him.  Now I'd just like for all of us to cool off and
return to the bunch of caring, adult people we are.

Kat

On Tue, 23 Apr 2002 12:44:23 -0400 Jennifer Zubko <[log in to unmask]>
wrote:

I was going to be really rude to Kyle but you have saved me from it. Thank
you. I don't know why people expect me to explain my whole life in e-mails.
It cannot happen that way, unless I wrote a novel. I don't have time or
energy for that right now. You will never understand my life unless you live
it, end of story.

I will take a break from the list for awhile. Think I need to. Again, Meir,
thank you for understanding.
Jenn