Hey Vince!

It's good to see you here too!!  Thanks for your encurgment.  It
really helps me to keep all this in proper prospective when I can
share it with others like your self.

So sounds like you began to meet more women when you chose just to be
your self.  So are you dating different women now, are are you pritty
much just seeing one person?  Have you dated both disabled
&nondisabled women?  Could you talk alittle more about the different
asspecks of that if there are any?

Thanks-Gary



On Mon, 25 Jan 1999, Vince Montgomery wrote:

> Hi Gary et al
>
> It's nice to see you around.
>
> > I know this subject has come up a number of times since I've been on
> > this list.  But I need to talk about it again because: Oh I don't
> > know, I guess I'm just lonely.
>
> This is a favorite subject of mine too.  It is the kind of subject that
> is important to all of us, disabled or not.
>
> ---Snip---
>
> > So right now, my add is running for the second week.  I've talked with 2
> > women thus far, and although they were nice over the phone, I doubt if
> > I'll hear from either of them again.  I've been very up-front about my
> > disabillity.  I have nothing to hide.  What you see is what you get you
> > know?
>
> Your courage honors us.  People can have trouble with such
> honesty.  But where I come from, honesty like yours earns
> respect.
>
> > So I guess what I'm asking here, is just to hear about different
> > exsperiences that you've all had with this.  At different times in my
>
> It has been my experience that my relationships come from the
> unexpected corners of my world.  That is to say, I never planned
> them.  Also, when I went looking for someone, it failed miserably
> every time.  Basically I wasn't being myself, and the women knew
> a phony when they saw one.
>
> Things changed for me when I was just being me.  I became more
> relaxed and approachable.  This has worked wonders for me.  It's
> just about being real.  Having gotten to know you through this list,
> Gary, I know that being real isn't a problem for you.
>
> Relax and let it come to you.  When your meet the right one, there
> will be know doubt in your mind.
>
> Peace, my friend....
>
> Vince
>
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