Kyle,
You hit on a very important issue in your last post...People seem to
think that the responsibility for raising good kids lies almost
exclusively with the SCHOOL...well, as a teacher, I can tell you I
certainly try and teach kids good manners, respect, compassion etc.,
but let;s not forget that I have a VERY packed curriculum to teach of
ACADEMIC information. When I first started teaching, I worked a year
at a more rural district in very conservative, blue collar Amish
country. Let me tell ya, those kids were the best behaved, well-
mannered. Some didn't even have running hot water at their house,
but they knew how to say thank you. And if I ever had a problem, I
just called home and all was solved. Then I went to work in a
district that is very wealthy and the kids expected you to give them
what they wanted, hardly ever appreciated things, and parents excused
their rude behavior or not doing work by making excuses. School
can't fix lack of parenting (although I tried!).
Linda M.
On Nov 1, 2007, at 8:04 AM, Cleveland, Kyle E. wrote:
> Actually, Linda, I think you'll find that the bulk of school shooting
> incidents are by kids that have been bullied, not the other way
> around.
>
> All the training in the world does not change hearts--especially kids.
> If these were effective tools we'd have little drug use in school,
> limited teen pregnancy rates, cigarette smoking among the young
> would be
> declining instead of increasing. A lot of research points to the
> destruction of the nuclear family as a major cause of these ills--we
> can't paper that over with "training".
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: Cerebral Palsy List [mailto:[log in to unmask]] On
> Behalf
> Of Linda Walker
> Sent: Wednesday, October 31, 2007 2:18 PM
> To: [log in to unmask]
> Subject: Re: Let's Shift Gears ....
>
> Bullies these days are taking guns to school and shooting people. I
> think we need more training on understanding the other guys point of
> view, on how important diversity is, and on kindness and compassion.
> Kids are tough. They have to deal with all kinds of adult realities
> at much earlier ages than before - drugs in junior high, sexual
> acting out from I think too much exposure by what is portrayed in the
> media, early onset puberty, societal violence so that they are not
> even playing outside in many neighborhoods. We need health care and
> family stability. Who are the bullies anyhow. Kids who are not
> getting what they need at home and in school to progress successfully.
>
> At 12:11 AM 10/31/2007, you wrote:
>> You know, I read an article recently in which a researcher was quoted
> as
>> saying we need to let our kids learn to deal with bullies - you
>> know,
>> let them toughen up. It seems we are raising a generation of whiny
>> brats who can't deal with the realities of life. I have to say I
>> kind
>> of agree with him.
>>
>> Kat
>>
>> Deri James wrote:
>>> On Wednesday 31 October 2007 02:05:02 kat wrote:
>>>
>>>> Thanks for setting us straight, Deri! Now you've got me feeling
> sick
>>>> that a disabled person can use her disability to "beat the system."
> Ugh!
>>>> Gives the rest of us a bad name.
>>>>
>>>> Kat
>>>>
>>>>
>>>
>>> Hi Kat,
>>>
>>> I do not know if I'm right, its just that I realised while
>> reading that if you
>>> take away the disability element the things she describes happen to
> many,
>>> many people, who do not have the opportunity to sue.
>>>
>>> Also, I realised that it seems the whole case revolves around her
>> disability,
>>> the article says she is actually suing the company for sexual
> harrassment
>>> (not discrimination - probably because all her cited instances of
>>> discrimination occurred outside work in a social setting).
>>>
>>> Cheers
>>>
>>> Deri
>>>
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