Cindy asked, "How do I get over that hurdle of feeling weird when he's just
treating me the way a man is supposed to treat a lady?"

Bobby gave some good advice.  Basically if you spend enough time, eventually
you grow into accepting being treated well.  I know it sounds strange, but I
think your "weird feeling" is quite common when your used to being treated
badly.  I too experienced a similar feeling.

When I first my husband we were just friends.  I was used to behaving a
certain way with men.  I felt one of my main "functions" or roles to fill was
sexual in nature.  I didn't think a man could simply enjoy or want me around
unless I was filling some purpose, playing a role.

I felt very uncomfortable when my husband and I began to date.  He didn't
really "NEED" me for anything.  Instead he "WANTED" me, and there is a huge
difference.  It took me a long time to get used to the idea.  Cindy, in time
you will grow into being comfortable being treated like a lady.  In fact,
once you adjust to being treated well, you will find it hard to believe you
ever accepted any thing less!  - Take Care:  Denise.