Well-said, Stephen!  You echo my sentiments exactly!

Having said that, I do admit after my first reaction to Matt's abrasive
comments to Joanne -- I wanted to rip him apart -- I think he's actually
done us a favour of  a dubious sort.  He's gotten a lot of the lurkers to
come out and speak.  <grin>  His comments certainly has added some spice to
this list.

        Kathy S.
>
> I believe Joanne was expressing that she would like the best life for her
> son. Joanne is a parent that cares for her child and I believe she needs
> encouragement and support. We need to give suggestions and criticisms
without
> insulting and demeaning people. I hope you can apologize to her for your
> cruel and cold words. Joanne is not the problem, she is on this List for
her
> son. All of us are human disabled or not and we all make mistakes. The
Nazi
> crap you mentioned is horrible and you need to look at your life. Please
do
> not let anger and bitterness eat you up.