On the other hand, there's that old saying, "Time keeps everything from
happening at once."

In a message dated 11/05/2000 1:09:52 PM Eastern Standard Time,
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> Mag,
>
>  I partly disagree with you.  I think getting help is a good idea, but
>  asking Anee to give up something recreational is akin to giving in to her
>  CP.  Sure, life would be easier if we all just sat home in our own little
>  world, but I refuse to do that.  For too many years I sat home and was a
>  good little CP boy, but now it's my turn to live. Is life a struggle?  You
>  bet it is, I struggle and take risks everyday, that's just part of life.
>   Anee whether she knows it or not is a role model for others, as you are
>  and hopefully me too.  There was a time I hated going out, wouldn't eat in
>  public because I was too embarassed, and then one day I said screw society
>  if they are bothered by me that's their problem not mine.  So I say to Anee
>  do what you can to be safe and control your problems, but NEVER curtail
>  your activities solely because you have CP.
>
>  Tom


Betty
aut viam inveniam aut faciam
"I will either find a way or make one."