Dear Mag, That is how someone who abused children or adults think. thay want to
take the blame off of them self. so thay put the blame on you. My Mom said it
was my fault I have CP. because she feels guilt she did not do as the Dr. told
her to do when she was carring me. and I was born 10 weeks early in 1954. she
went for a ride in a pickup truck (a 100 mile ride.) on a country road. while
she was spotting carrying me. and the Dr. told her to say in bed or she was
going to loos me. and she did not listen to him. and so she took her gilt out
on me. that is how abuse works. the person is so caught up on there self.  that
is all thay thank about.   Lynn

Magenta Raine wrote:

> In a message dated 10/3/00 10:23:39 PM Pacific Daylight Time,
> [log in to unmask] writes:
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> > It was my fault that he raped me because I had twisted feet and legs.
> This makes no sense. Why would somebody say this was why he raped you? I
> believe he said it, but oh lord!  the man must have had a much more twisted
> mind than your body ever was twisted!