Looking at mcallen texas. Further south than miami, not the dessert, but
drier than florida, cheaper than atlanta, but, big enough to have some
things that city people are accustomed to having.

One thing we may do is an interim place. Near a college in ala or ga. To
help ben to be able to live at home while attending then move to the better
climate after that.

-----Original Message-----
From: Cleveland, Kyle E. [mailto:[log in to unmask]]
Sent: Thursday, October 03, 2002 12:19 PM
To: [log in to unmask]
Subject: Re: marriage

I hear you, Ken.  Right now I think I'm headed for a deep depression because
my two youngest need me to keep going, and I don't see how I can.  Laura and
I went out to dinner last night to celebrate her birthday.  We got on this
very subject, and figured that she probably has ten years, tops--even with
remissions.

So, if you retire, would it be in some Georgia/Alabama tiny town or would
you try to move to a better climate?

-Kyle

-----Original Message-----
From: Barber, Kenneth L. [mailto:[log in to unmask]]
Sent: Thursday, October 03, 2002 12:03 PM
To: [log in to unmask]
Subject: Re: marriage


Don't get me wrong, I love my family, but, I am paying a big price in pain
to do what is right by them as long as I can drag into this office. I had to
discuss going on extended leave with the doctor Tuesday. I may have to just
give up the fight and retire. I do not want to have to take ben out of
school and move, but, ecconomically atlanta or any big city is not the place
to be on a fixed income.