Hi Mag,

I tend to think she views it as 'her own shortcoming' for having had a baby that
wasn't perfect........  and even though her mind knows I have my problems, she
can't accept it in a 'social' way, or 'physical' way.  She noticed the toilet
seat (which is fairly new, mind you), has gotten a crack in it, somehow - and
she's complaining that we have to get a new one even though this one isn't all
that old.  And she asks me, 'doesn't it bother you'?  And I go - no mom, I have
no feeling in my bottom.......  I could sit on a brick and not know the
difference'..... she just has no grasp of it at all..........

See ya
Beth

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