damn Betty-- keep em rolling!!!!!!  LMAO

Sad to say...... I almost married one...  strange!  Now he lives with an older lesbian,  goes out with her one night a week, works with a gal who he goes out with another night of the week, and he goes on cruises with each, seperately of course...  THEN...... he sees a gay masousse in Chicago.  He was so tactually defensive while we dated for 8+ years........ I cannot believe that  he lets another- man at that give him massages!!!!!!!! Too much for me!  And I thank GOD that I am not another one of his "nights" of the week!!!!!!




On Tue, 17 April 2001, Betty B wrote:

>
> In a message dated 04/17/2001 7:22:24 PM Eastern Daylight Time,
> [log in to unmask] writes:
>
> > Betty, golly, my mom's first husband had the gall to bring a man to her bed
> >  one day, she found him. She ht the ceiling, of course, and left him. he was
> >  bisexual.
> >
> What a world, eh?  You know, my Mom's first husband was similarly inclined,
> and I am wondering how many gay men there are out there who are married?
> Maybe less now that homosexuality is more openly discussed.  I didn't find
> this out until I was a teenager, a little after my sister had passed on.  He
> was her father, my dad was her step father, but she never knew that her
> natural father was gay.  Mom didn't want her to find out. My Mom and Dad
> married when my sister was fairly young, so he was really the Dad that she
> knew.
>
> After my own Dad died, Mom and her first husband started talking again.  They
> really needed to talk, I think, and make peace with each other.  It seemed to
> me that they needed to grieve the loss of their daughter together.  I got a
> chance to know him too.  He really was a nice man, and I liked the idea of
> having the chance to know him.
>
> When he died, we went to his funeral, and his lovers (two) were there of
> course.  They were the very same men who were in his life when he was married
> to my Mom.  After the service, she and I went up to them and she hugged both
> of them and asked if there was something she could do.  I thought that was
> just too cool of her because her background was so parochial that she never
> was able to handle the subject of homosexuality.  She never handled that her
> first husband was gay very well either.  She just never wanted to talk about
> gay issues and stuff.
>
> I went out to dinner with my ex and his lover after our divorce.  His lover
> and I danced a couple of dances together.  During a slow dance, I started
> thinking how attractive that guy was, and you know how those thoughts go.
> Then I thought, "Oh man!  How weird is this?"
>
> Mom always said that when her first husband was in the Army during W.W.II,
> she thought they did something to him overseas that screwed him up, and
> that's how he ended up being gay.
>
> Must have been the day he bent over to pick up the soap.
>
> Betty




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