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ken barber <[log in to unmask]>
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am i missing some posts? is the woman that mike is
wanting to see mentally disabled? or is this the girl
anthony talked about being picked up and disapearing
that you are referring to here?  

--- Linda Walker <[log in to unmask]> wrote:

>          Yes that's what I was wondering about as
> well. But then if 
> you have the maturity of a child but the
> chronological age of an 
> adult do you have the right to engage in sex and
> have fun as many 
> people do. I can see how parents would be upset
> especially if 
> pregnancy is an issue and depending on their moral
> values.
> They used to sterilize people who were
> developmentally delayed and I 
> am against that in every way. I think one reason
> this was done was so 
> routine rape of these individuals would not be
> noticed. We have 
> certainly been in the dark ages with a lot of our
> thinking on this.
>          It doesn't seem fair if a parent is the
> guardian for a woman 
> with the mind of a girl to have to make a decision
> about a child who 
> is conceived. Also I think these girls can be taken
> advantage of. 
> It's a thorny problem and I just don't know the
> answer. I can see how 
> this would overwhelm a family doing their best to
> care for a disabled member.
>          I also see no reason why the
> developmentally delayed should 
> be denied exploring their sexuality. I also think
> saying no could be 
> a problem for DD and so there is a lot of room for
> exploitation here.
> 
> At 03:11 PM 4/10/2006, you wrote:
> >Sometimes this is sticky, I know when I wanted to
> get my first tattoo, they
> >wouldn't give it to me before they knew I was
> competent in making my own
> >decisions, and I feel we have to realize that
> there's some adults with
> >disabilities who aren't, and it's our jobs to
> protect them.  But however I'm
> >willing to listen to other views, but my mom has a
> friend who's son is
> >mentally challenged, and I wouldn't leave him alone
> for several hours like
> >my parents can do with me.
> >
> >Thanks,
> >Anthony
> >Visit my website at www.anthonyarnold.net
> >
> >-----Original Message-----
> >From: Cerebral Palsy List
> [mailto:[log in to unmask]] On Behalf Of
> >ken barber
> >Sent: Monday, April 10, 2006 4:11 PM
> >To: [log in to unmask]
> >Subject: Re: Larry King Live last night
> >
> >er, anthony, theres a difference in a grown man
> >picking up and  molesting a teenager than for two
> >adults in their 30's having a mutual relationship
> with
> >out the government or parents interferring.
> >
> >--- Anthony Arnold <[log in to unmask]>
> wrote:
> >
> > > I must say I don't know what's being discussed
> here,
> > > but I want to throw out
> > > something, but I'm not saying you would be
> capable
> > > of doing something like
> > > this.  I personally know (or knew) a gal who
> fitted
> > > the MR/DD description,
> > > and she was around my age, and she was the
> typical
> > > teenage girl who enjoyed
> > > dressing hot and impressing guys, she usually
> wore
> > > tight clothing and high
> > > heels.  Ten years ago this coming fall (hard to
> > > believe), she was walking
> > > home from somewhere, and it's believed that a
> guy
> > > offered her a ride home
> > > and a good time, and she hasn't been seen since.
> > > I'm not suggesting you
> > > would, but knowing what they say happened to my
> > > friend, I can honestly see
> > > why they're concerned a little.
> > >
> > > Thanks,
> > > Anthony
> > > Visit my website at www.anthonyarnold.net
> > >
> > > -----Original Message-----
> > > From: Cerebral Palsy List
> > > [mailto:[log in to unmask]] On Behalf Of
> > > Magenta Raine
> > > Sent: Sunday, April 09, 2006 10:22 PM
> > > To: [log in to unmask]
> > > Subject: Re: Larry King Live last night
> > >
> > > mental retardation/developmental disabilities
> > >
> > > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
> > > [log in to unmask]
> > > Come visit my new store! I now carry tee shirts
> and
> > > other items!
> > > http://www.cafepress.com/TamarMag
> > > visit my Blog at;
> > > http://tamarmag-newsletters.blogspot.com/
> > >
> > >
> > > > [Original Message]
> > > > From: Kathleen Salkin <[log in to unmask]>
> > > > To: <[log in to unmask]>
> > > > Date: 4/9/2006 8:04:06 PM
> > > > Subject: Re: Larry King Live last night
> > > >
> > > > Er, who's MR/DD?  If that's Social Services,
> they
> > > have no business
> > > > doing this.
> > > >
> > > > Kat
> > > >
> > > > On 9 Apr 2006, at 22:31, [log in to unmask]
> wrote:
> > > >
> > > > been through enough with her but the
> underlying
> > > problem comes from
> > > > finding
> > > > out from others that MR/DD is finding out who
> else
> > > I've ever had
> > > > contact  with
> > > > and making that I no longer have anything else
> to
> > > do with them.  I'm
> > > > not
> > > > being paranoid about this.  This is a major
> reason
> > > I need to move
> > > > out  of this
> > > > area.
> > > >
> > > > Walk away  before I finish what you started.
> Face
> > > to face I will put
> > > > you in
> > > > your place. End  this game before I finish
> what
> > > you started. Face to
> > > > face
> > > > everything will  change.
> > > >
> > > > "Stand Up" by Trapt
> > > >
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