I have seen your letter 4 times now so it is getting through.
Regards Elizabeth

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From: "Karen K. Perlow" <[log in to unmask]>
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Sent: Thursday, August 24, 2000 1:04 PM
Subject: My IEP letter..4th try


> I tried sending this letter to the list & it didn't go thru the 1st
time..so
> I resent it.That email was sent back unprocessed because it contained the
> same text as the 1st one. Maybe the 3rd time's the charm. Sorry for the
> confusion...I had to send this a 4th time , by the way..The communicator
in
> me is VERY frustrated..LOL.
>
> After reading some of the discussion on this list, I thought I would share
my
> letter to my daughter's teachers concerning her IEP..It was a nightmare
due
> to a lack time & the fact that her Asperger's syndrome hadn't been
diagnosed
> yet. I have to admit I was proud of it & did get their attention. Anyone
> who's dealt with an IEP can appreciate it.Feel free to share your own
> experiences.
>
> Thanks,
> Karen
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> ---------------------------------------------
> February 23,2000
>
>     Since the time was much shorter than what is usually accorded an IEP
> yesterday, I wanted to express some thoughts that I didn't have the
> opportunity to concerning the reevaluation. Way back in 1990, at her
intake
> evaluation, I was told that some people observing Erica at the time would
say
> that she is autistic but, that she isn't because she is so "into everybody
> else's business". I believe it was Ann Schultz who told me this. About 3
> years later I was told by Karen Walsh of Special School District that ALL
OF
> US have some degree of autistic tendencies. She was not speaking of Erica
> but, having an autistic son I am aware of behaviors. I believe she is
correct.
>
>     I was wondering why we were not given a parent input form to fill out
> prior to the IEP ? It always helps me to gather my thoughts for the
meeting.
> If that practice has been discontinued please let me know. I would like to
> let the chain of command at SSD know my feelings on the matter. I always
feel
> more like a participant in the process then. It doesn't seem one sided or
> quite as negative if this is included.
>
>     I'm sorry that due to circumstances beyond our control we were unable
to
> attend either of the conferences. I would have appreciated being informed
of
> these behavioral concerns before now though. I felt kind of blindsided
> yesterday. I have talked to her about some of them. I think that with
> reinforcement everyday some of them will diminish or disappear. Some of
her
> "paranoia" could be attributed to the problems she has had with Sarah
Simpson
> during 5th & 6th grade. Sherry Stryhal can give you details on last year
if
> you like. I would strongly suggest consulting Beth Mee & Alan Smith about
> this.They seem to have been successful in the past with her. Sherry
Stryhal
> should be helpful in getting Erica to understand that most of this
"talking
> about her" isn't really happening. We are willing to do anything we can to
> help but, we can't be a part of the solution if we're not kept abreast of
the
> problem.
>
>     Thank you for your attention.
>                                         Sincerely,
>
>                                         Karen Perlow