It seems like a good subject to me.  If this is important to you than it's
good enough to be a topic of discussion.

If you want to know the truth, I think your field is somewhat narrowed in the
nondisabled guy market.  I inadvertently weeded out a lot of shallow
"friends" after I became disabled.

Does my answer put your question into perspective a little bit?

Betty

In a message dated 11/07/2000 1:30:57 AM Eastern Standard Time,
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> Hi all,
>  I realize what I am about to ask is off-topic & very un-PC, but I still
>  think its worthy of discussion. I have been trying to date after a ten year
>  marriage, and am curious about whether, as a woman who uses a cane due to
>  CP, I should really expect to date nondisabled men?
>
>  I haven't had such great experiences up to now. I think than somehow women
>  are more accepting of a man with "flaws" of any sort, but that, in general,
>  men want more especially when it comes to physical appearence.
>
>  My ex is more effected by his disability than I, although mine is more
>  visible. I don't want to be a caretaker again. I just wonder if I'm wasting
>  my time trying to date nondisabled men.