being single certainly has its advantages just as married have some
advantages.

-----Original Message-----
From: sara lynn weaver [mailto:[log in to unmask]]
Sent: Wednesday, November 08, 2000 10:31 PM
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Subject: Re: Nondisabled men & Disabled Women?


Dear Mike, I have ran into the same problem. and I have done what you are
doing. I am 46 years old and the guys I have dated that was TABS have done
me
the same way. Thay have said some crude things to me. and treated me like I
was stupid. and said, The reason I ask you out is I have never dated a Cripe
before. and I wanted to know what it is like.  and I said I have never dated
a hartless person before so I guess we both learned something new tongiht.
and that shout him up.This was just one of the guys of several dates I had
like that.  So I know how you feel.  Being single is not so bad. I have some
friends that care about me. and remember me on my birthday and Christmas.
and
I know if I needed them in a Emergency thay would be here for me.  and I do
not have to put up with the crude remarks. and someone wanting to date me
just to find out what it is like to date someone with CP. Lynn

"Michael H. Collis" wrote:

> Well, here's one who wouldn't mind dating another person with c.p. :-)
> I've had dates with outhers without disabilities, and I've had my heart
> broken by females who were able bodied. After the last one, which was two
> years ago, I decided I was not going to initiate a relationship with
> another TAB.   I'm 45 years old and I've decided I don't need the
> relationship baggage to live my life...
> Having someone in my life WOULD be nice, but not necessary...
> Mike
>
> Linda Wagner wrote:
>
> > Mike,
> >
> > Doesn't matter to me either way...I would be a hypocrite if I only said
> > I'd date able-bodied guys!  I just haven't met any disabled guys that
> > want to date me ;)
> >
> > Linda