In a message dated 3/24/02 11:50:42 AM Pacific Standard Time,
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<< But I would really appreciate advice from the gals
 on the list.  What was your first time like?  How did you deal with lack of
 flexibility/range of motion issues?  Positions?  I know my boyfriend wants a
 family and I would want to be sure I could give him that before we even
 consider the idea of marriage.  For now, my biggest concerns are about the
 physical act itself, with concerns about having a family further into the
 future. >>
I 'll tell you the truth.... My first time hurt BADLY...not only for the
obvious reasons, but because of my hips too.... We first had sex "missionary'
position and I ended up with bruises all along the sides of my inner
thighs...The situation got better  as time went along because i guess i
became more "limber" and my legs had loosened up...
we have found that when my range of motion is somewhat impaired that other
positions have worked out nicely.... you and your partner have to see what is
best for you... and only you two  can decide that... (trust me, you'll be
able to work out SOMETHING:)
Jennifer