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Linda Walker <[log in to unmask]>
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Are you depressed? It is not the best of times and maybe our 
responses are natural. I read the explosions can have something to do 
with seratonin levels.

At 05:49 PM 4/8/2006, you wrote:
>Nothing against anti-depressants because my parents truly think I should be
>on one, and I think it's worth a try, but I do love my Bud Light, will my
>Bud days be over?  I remember the last time I needed to go under for dental,
>I didn't drink for a month because I was so concerned about mixing alcohol
>and anesthesia.
>
>Thanks,
>Anthony
>Visit my website at www.anthonyarnold.net
>
>-----Original Message-----
>From: Cerebral Palsy List [mailto:[log in to unmask]] On Behalf Of
>Magenta Raine
>Sent: Saturday, April 08, 2006 10:00 PM
>To: [log in to unmask]
>Subject: Re: Larry King Live last night
>
>Anthony,
>It is one thing to need counseling, and another to need to be in a psych
>hospital.  Both my parents were Psychologists well, dad was, and mom was an
>MSW who had issues with her own intermittant blow ups. Anyway, people who
>take care of their emotions will be more respected than those who do not.
>Don't be afraid to get counseling, and many people take anti-depressants,
>so it should not impact how people in the community feel about you. And,
>fwiw, (for what it's worth) you should not be too concerned about how
>others view you! In the late 70's I used to listen to a wonderful lady
>named Dr. Terry Whitaker, and she wrote a great book, titled;
>"What you think of me is none of my business" and I found it very
>liberating. As long as you live your life in an ethical way, what others
>think of you should not matter.
>
>Don't let others push you into anything. Like Kat's mother, and my mother,
>I was a reactive personality who could explode now and then. I had to go to
>counseling when my episodes threatened my marriage. As annoying as my
>husband was at the time, he didn't deserve to be screamed at or have books
>tossed at him. I learned to see the red flags for myself... went something
>like this;
>annoyance, pissed off, anger rising, perhaps getting hot in my neck, Anger,
>and then rage.... When I learned to recognize those red flags, and it took
>me about nine months, I could see it coming, and tell him, okay I need a
>time out, either you need to leave me alone, or I need to go in the other
>room to calm down... There were defintely times I felt he was pushing me on
>purpose, by trying to belittle my feelings of anger, by saying, oh come on,
>you're not realy mad... there was one time he was doing that, and I had
>reached the boiling point, and had to say, Tim, please, leave me alone, I
>am really angry and if you don't get out of my face now, I will SLUG YOU!
>So, that is how counseling can help.
>
>Mag
>
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>
> > [Original Message]
> > From: Anthony Arnold <[log in to unmask]>
> > To: <[log in to unmask]>
> > Date: 4/8/2006 4:27:21 PM
> > Subject: Re: Larry King Live last night
> >
> > Why is it so shocking, I would feel they would want you to be happy.  And
> > plus understanding partners are difficult to come.
> >
> > Thanks,
> > Anthony
> > Visit my website at www.anthonyarnold.net
> >
> > -----Original Message-----
> > From: Cerebral Palsy List [mailto:[log in to unmask]] On Behalf Of
> > Chester Worwa
> > Sent: Saturday, April 08, 2006 5:44 PM
> > To: [log in to unmask]
> > Subject: Re: Larry King Live last night
> >
> > This is just family.  Believe me I go through it a lot
> > and this is why I'm so glad I moved out almost 10
> > years ago.  If they knew the "real" me I'd probably be
> > locked up for a long time.  It's just so shocking that
> > my parents want me to move in with my girlfriend.
> >
> > --- Anthony Arnold <[log in to unmask]> wrote:
> >
> > > Mike,=20
> > >
> > > I know this may sound funny coming from a guy who
> > > sometimes appears to =
> > > have
> > > everything moving in a positive direction with
> > > working, living =
> > > independently
> > > and enjoying weight lifting, but I sometimes too
> > > feel forced into a
> > > lifestyle which my parents say is bull, and their
> > > tired having me =
> > > complain
> > > about feeling forced into something.  My suggestion
> > > for you is to move =
> > > on,
> > > it's your life, why not enjoy it, start seeing this
> > > gal before time runs
> > > out. =20
> > >
> > > Back to myself, I had another blow out with my
> > > parents, brother, his =
> > > fianc=E9,
> > > and her parents happened to be there to witness it,
> > > and were shock since =
> > > I'm
> > > supposed to be a intelligent individual very
> > > respected in augmentative =
> > > and
> > > alternative communication (a field I love).  After
> > > blowing up, I =
> > > requested
> > > to be driven home where my comfort zone is, so my
> > > father brought me home =
> > > and
> > > left me to cool down.  This morning we talked by
> > > telephone, and =
> > > everybody
> > > thinks I should get help with my emotions, and
> > > probably some medicine.  =
> > > My
> > > mom says this is 15 years late because I can be good
> > > for months and than
> > > just snap.   I'm going to get help because I'm tired
> > > of the after =
> > > feeling,
> > > today I feel physically tired, and I have things to
> > > prepare for.  I'm =
> > > just
> > > scared of the therapist saying I can't work
> > > (something I definitely =
> > > enjoy,
> > > and am one of the better technicians at PRC for
> > > working out whatever).
> > > Another concern is the mental illness label, I don't
> > > want that effecting =
> > > the
> > > way I'm seen by the company and our customers, I
> > > want to figure out =
> > > their
> > > future communication devices, something I'm good at.
> > > =20
> > >
> > > Bobby always said this list was caring, and I
> > > definitely need guidance =
> > > now.
> > >
> > >
> > > Thanks,=20
> > > Anthony=20
> > > Visit my website at www.anthonyarnold.net
> > >
> > > -----Original Message-----
> > > From: Cerebral Palsy List
> > > [mailto:[log in to unmask]] On Behalf =
> > > Of
> > > Kendall David Corbett
> > > Sent: Saturday, April 08, 2006 1:49 PM
> > > To: [log in to unmask]
> > > Subject: Re: Larry King Live last night
> > >
> > > Mike,=3D20
> > > =3D20
> > > Who is preventing you from seeing this woman?  I
> > > assume you are both of =
> > > =3D
> > > legal age and are in charge of your own affairs.
> > > There are several =3D
> > > reliable forms of birth control that could be used
> > > that don't involve =
> > > =3D
> > > permanently precliding the option of children.
> > > =3D20
> > > Kendall
> > >
> > > =3D20
> > > ________________________________
> > >
> > > From: [log in to unmask] [mailto:[log in to unmask]]
> > > Sent: Fri 4/7/2006 7:54 PM
> > > To: [log in to unmask]
> > > Subject: Re: Larry King Live last night
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > > I have been prevented from seeing a woman I've known
> > > for years on  the
> > > assumption that she'll end up pregnant.  I would
> > > love to have a  =3D
> > > committed
> > > relationship, but it just hasn't happened yet.
> > >
> > > Walk away  before I finish what you started. Face to
> > > face I will put you =
> > > =3D
> > > in
> > > your place. End  this game before I finish what you
> > > started. Face to =3D
> > > face
> > > everything will  change.
> > >
> > > "Stand Up" by Trapt
> > >
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