I also think that those of us who are disabled, should not profess to know
all. Lets face it, I did not need a feeding tube, i didn't have seizures, i
saw a man who had a feeding tube a year ago at a conference and i was
surprised when i saw his helper pour coffee down it, but hey, i don't know, i
guess it was hot and had caffeine and sugar.  ?i drink coffee for the taste
of it. (not often) I guess what I'm saying is that unless we were physically
there with Tracy we don't know what Tracy went thru.  i still think there
must have been other options for her.

There is A difference between murder and puling the plug.

Sometimes i do have dark moments where i wonder if my being here on  earth
has been helpful to anybody.  but as i recently told my nephew, "I'm just a
stubborn old bitch who hates to fail."