Hey is blackmail allowed on BP? Rev. Jim, what's your next big preservation
job? Would like to provide structural services. Now, let me see I think I
still have that invite to the bluegrass festival in the Berkshires. Doesn't
that have the Rev's wife's name and address on it somewhere. Hey, help me
out here a bit.

Yuck, yuck. Funny thing is I can't talk my way into or out of marriage. She
doesn't seem to mind. Or, maybe she really does?!? Yikes.

Call me,

Bob Crachett

-----Original Message-----
From: JRhodes [mailto:[log in to unmask]]
Sent: Thursday, October 07, 1999 5:20 PM
To: [log in to unmask]
Subject: Quiet morning...DON'T!


Re Ralph's, "I can only advise you NOT to get married."

If you can simply talk someone out of getting married, they shouldn't be
thinking of marriage.  They should be beyond the thinking stage.  They
should have the personal conviction to get married despite your
discouragement, because discouraging things are bound to come along later,
and they'll need the grit or wit to see it through.  So...DON'T DO IT!
YOU'RE MAKING A BIG MISTAKE!  IT WON'T WORK!  OH, TO BE SINGLE AGAIN!

Whew!  That's Rev. Jim talking.  (Don't show this to my wife, please.)