Off topic I know, but I'm really discourraged.  The last month in my life 
has been unbelievable.

I have been drawing some each month on s s d i on my dad's number for many 
years.  As some of you may know, my wife passed away last December.  I 
called social security this morning to ask about getting a widdow's 
pention.  I was told by the lady there that since my marriage in 2000, 
that I should not have been eligible.  Therefore, I'll get a letter of 
over payment and I will have to repay the last ten and a half years back 
to them.  I was told many times before that my marital status wouldn't 
effect this.  I don't know where to go from here.  On top of everything 
else I've been going through, this is the last straw.

Butch