The article contained excellent advice for anyone looking to begin as well
as change carriers.
Luis
At 10:16 AM 1/31/99 -0600, Kelly Pierce wrote:
>from the January issue of the Utney Reader=20
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> How to Think Outside the Cube
> 13 ways to leave your lousy job
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> OK. You've finally let the bitter truth seep into the part of your
> brain that admits bitter truths. Your job sucks. The mere fact that
> window envelopes with pretty checks in them arrive every two weeks is
> not doing it for you anymore. You are becoming very good at the
> thousand-yard stare, the long, unfocused look past your cubicle into a
> green-and-gold world out there somewhere, a world that's passing you
> by. Or perhaps you're so damned wiped out at the end of a day on the
> assembly line, behind the cash register, or at the nurse's station
> that the thousand-yard stare shrinks to six inches.
> =20
> Still, through it all you dare to dream. You dream of the job you love
> so much you can't believe you're getting paid to do it. The perfect
> match for your talents, habits, passions, and desire to make a
> difference in the world. It flickers in and out of your awareness. How
> do I get this job? you wonder, and then that plaintive question is
> smothered by dark thoughts: Pipe dream. The economy is sliding. The
> only real choice in the new millennium is between the burnout track in
> corporate clonelandif you've been to college, that isand a stupefying
> McJob.
> =20
> Now, I don't disagree with these staples of leftist pessimism. It's
> bloody hard for most ordinary Americans to actually lead satisfying
> lives under an economic system that portrays itself as the final form
> of human felicity. Finding good workwork that both thrills and pays
> the billsis a struggle for most of us. But if you put the right
> spectacles on at the beginning, it can be a more joyous, revealing,
> altruistic, fun, and even subtly subversive struggle than you might
> think.
> =20
> The following ideas aren't conventional career counseling, which may
> be what you need to make a small, sensible move inside the corporate
> culture. But if you want to consider breaking out of the box
> altogether, you'll have to look a lot harder and deeper, risking (and
> delighting in) transforming your feelings about yourself and the
> working world.
> =20
> Think big
> Not only do you have a constitutional right to the pursuit of
> happiness, but large goals are practical in a special way: If they
> really belong to you, they have more power to get you off your butt
> than "reasonable," "sensible," half-hearted ones do. So blurt 'em out.
> Sure, for an overweight 47-year-old, dreaming of a career as a
> professional gymnast is a little off the wallbut there's a truth
> inside your dream that you ought to pry out. Maybe you won't go to the
> Olympics, but can you see yourself doing something else triumphant and
> physical in front of an audience? Can you immerse yourself in the
> sports world in another way? The idea is to use the energy of your
> deepest desiresreliable energyto make big changes.
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> Be prepared to create your job
> While you're thinking big, ask yourself if you're willing to create
> your dream job if you can't "get" it any other way. And leave yourself
> open to the idea of a collage of jobsfood writer, cooking workshop
> leader, cook, restaurant consultant, saxophonist.
> =20
> List your truest values
> What's most important to you? Releasing your creative energies? You
> may think these things are foremost in your mind, but it's amazing how
> easily they slip away. Scads of self-help books and articles can
> provide you with values checklists, but my favorite comes from a
> simple memory exercise: Recall your life's two or three best
> momentswhen you did what you wanted and were utterly happy, at one
> with the cosmos, in the groove, fulfilled. Write them down in detail,
> on paper, then analyze them for content. Were you alone? Using your
> body? Immersed in thought? In the country, or a foreign city? Now it's
> easy: Your most important values are the concise statements of what
> you liked about what you were doing.
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> Look over the list daily
> Put it somewhere where you can see it, reread it often, and test all
> your pursuits against it. It just may warn you away from a gig that's
> convenient, available, and nowhere near good enough.
> =20
> Tap the power of images
> Clip images from magazines and paste them into a big, colorful
> composite image of your ideal job and/or life. Or draw and paint them
> yourself. You're not making fine art, you're creating a vision of your
> dreams. Put this "map" where you can see it every day.
> =20
> Make firm commitments
> Nicholas Lore, in The Pathfinder: How to Choose or Change Your Career
> for a Lifetime of Satisfaction and Success (Fireside, 1998), writes,
> "Nothing really spectacular will happen because you want it to or feel
> passionately about it. It will happen only if you promise that it will
> be so, and do what is necessary to keep your promise." The difference
> between "I really ought to go back to school" and "I will enroll in a
> Photoshop class by the end of the year" is clear.
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> Take a small step every day=20
> Call one friend who can help you focus your job search. Take one
> self-help book off its shelf and put it on your desk. Write one vow or
> affirmation in your notebook. Look up the number of your library's
> business department and write it down. That's enough for Monday. On
> Tuesday you'll call a second friend, read one chapter, write another
> vow, and call the library. If you think this pace is paltry, wait and
> see what you've accomplished in a week and compare it to a
> "gotta-do-it-all" week of overambitious inaction.
> =20
> Cultivate calm and acceptance=20
> I know it sounds wackyI mean, you're trying to get out of that
> hellhole, right? But it's worth a try for several reasons. First of
> all, a calm-as-possible approach to your less-than-perfect job, with
> an eye toward being of service to your colleagues, may change your
> mind about leaving in the first place. Not bloody likely? OK, then, it
> will minimize stress and conserve precious energy while you look for
> the next gig. Most important, it may actually make it likelier that
> you'll really leave, especially if you've developed family-style
> grudges against your bosses or co-workers. Deep resentment can hook
> you in a nasty, interminable replay of family issues that has a
> bizarre staying power and can actually magnetize you to your seat.
> =20
> Convene a Wise Persons Group=20
> That's my pet name for a committee of friends who agree to help you
> find job happiness. Pick a manageable but ample number of folks ( five
> to 10) who know you, love you, and won't bullshit you. Include both
> genders and as many different personal styles and points of view as
> you can. (Don't invite family members; they're too likely to counsel
> caution and make you self-conscious.) Invite them for coffee or dinner
> and leave enough time for a good talk. Make your problems, desires,
> and values clear to them, and ask for their frank assessment of where
> you are and where you might go next. Not only will you get a stunning
> amount of support and hear ideas you could never have come up with in
> a million years, but you'll probably learn about aptitudes and
> advantages that you've been hiding from yourself but are obvious to
> people who care about you.
> =20
> Interview interesting people
> This one is so simple it hurts. Seek out people who are doing what you
> want to do and talk to them. Ask them how they got where they are, how
> they spend the day, what they like and don't like about what they do.
> Your image of that dream job will get sharper, you'll make allies for
> the quest, and the idea that you really can have what you want will
> brighten and solidify in your brain.
> =20
> Job hunt with everyone
> Your helper network potentially includes everybody with whom you come
> in contact. Make yourself alert for, and receptive to, help from odd
> corners and unlikely people. Share your quest with the friendly coffee
> jockey you chat up at your local caf=E9she may be a potter or
> photographer or dancer who can hook you up with the art scene you're
> dying to enter. A conversation on the bus could lead you to a business
> venture you've never heard of.
> =20
> Lose the blue-collar complex
> Were you one of those working-class kids whose parents warned you to
> shut up, keep your nose clean, and keep punching the clockthe
> not-so-subtle subtext being that real fulfillment on the job isn't in
> the cards for the likes of us (i.e., you)? Well, you're as entitled to
> great work as the laptop-and-cappuccino people. So what if you didn't
> go to Harvard? You can go to the library, get on the Net, use the
> phone, and build as good a network as they've got. And you're probably
> hungrier and tougher than they are. Go for it.
> =20
> Develop a spiritual life=20
> Your search for fulfilling work is a wager that, if you do your part,
> the universe will provide what you need so that you can use your
> energy meaningfully and joyfully. Spiritual and religious traditions
> generally combine a doctrine of individual worth with a sense of
> humility and awe before the paradoxical face of reality. A spiritual
> life will help you feel the dignity of your quest and find meaning in
> its twists, turns, stops, and starts. And leaving its outcome in the
> hands of a power greater than yourself isking of paradoxesthe best way
> to make sure you do your part, daily, toward your dream.
> =20
> Jon Spayde
> =20
> Jon Spayde is a contributing editor of Utne Reader, a journalism
> teacher, and a fiction writer who is pursuing a long-repressed desire
> to do performance art.
>
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