bobby, i'd like to add, if i may, something about why the list means a lot to
me.  where else could i discuss my startle reflexes, who else could empathize
with banging a knee on the table everytime the phone rings, or somebody comes
in the room.   who else could understand why i have so many scars on the back
of my hands? (i did not break teeth when i fell, just got bloody noses and
scrapes on my hands and knees.)   who else could know what it's like to be
dragged to pt, st, or ot after school?

things like that....

mag, who has finally gotten a section 8 certificate!!!