well said, denise!

i can verify that the first time with a new partner is always nerve-wracking,

if we can't discuss this in an adult manner here, i'm happy to chat with
anyone male or female in private email.  i would just add that sex is a
natural thing. do it with somebody you care about, otherwise the experience
can be very unfilfilling thing. when you love the person, it is one of the
most beautiful things going.

p.s. denise, i just figured out your screen name. very clever.