Hugs From us Betty,
I know your Mom is miserable - she has actually said so to me!! This is
a major indicators of her discomfort level. I am glad she only has 8 weeks
of treatment and not endless months like it used to be. Wonder if getting
her in a group or on a list would help. Then she would have cronies to
commisserate with? Yeah, I know - its Ann I am talking about - Hey just an
idea!!
Love you Sweetie Poo - Trisha and
Amber
> -----Original Message-----
> From: Betty Alfred [SMTP:[log in to unmask]]
> Sent: Monday, May 01, 2000 2:05 PM
> To: [log in to unmask]
> Subject: Fire dept/military strategy, various -- HELP!!!
>
> In a message dated 04/28/2000 10:01:58 PM Eastern Daylight Time,
> [log in to unmask] writes:
>
> << I think the biggest fire I put out in 5 years was the one I
> started on my hair. (Don't ask <grin>).
> Firefighters can be great guys but, there definately is a lot of
> misogynistic(sp?) tendencies. And don't get me started about quotas.
> >>
>
> You sound like me Beth, and I don't know how to tell you this, but I am
> definitely going to ask you about the hair incident. Having served in the
> Navy, surely you must know that you just gave me an automatic order. I'll
> ask off-list though.
>
> The weekend has been total hell psychologically -- complete and total
> hell.
> A few days ago I'm back in action on the list, and trying to find out how
> people feel about specific CP stuff since I REALLY DO CARE about you guys
> and
> that subject! Next thing you know, the loony bin relative contingent shows
> up
> at our house to whine about their sprained toes while I am in major
> neuropathy pain and root canal pain (first of three in a series of
> fun-filled, action pack root canal adventures), and my Mom is in major
> cancer
> pain, and nausea from chemotherapy.
>
> Do they offer to help me or my Mom with anything - NO. Do they take the
> only
> chair I can sit in without having butt and back pain for the next week,
> even
> after I tell them - YES. Do they care that my Mom and I are both so
> screwed
> up physically at the moment that we almost can't even help each other -
> NO!
> Do they bring food after I specifically tell them that my Mom gets sick
> right
> now just smelling food and NOT to bring any - YES! Do they stay until the
> cows come home - YES! Can I persuade said cows to run over top of ditzy
> said
> relatives upon said return - NO!
>
> Things are going to get worse, that's for sure. I've got to have a master
> plan, or my life is going to be overcome by domestic events and wacky
> relations. I'll be spacing in and out of the list for a while, so please
> don't pay attention to me unless I accidentally say something intelligent.
> At the moment it would be a fluke.
>
> I can tell y'all one thing, I never encountered a hill that I didn't take
> eventually, and this one isn't going to be any different. I'm charging up
> that baby and I'm planting my *%$#^% flag when I get to the top.
>
> Trust me though, there is a mental health reason for the Bonzo Rocket
> Club.
> I'll give you another chance to join:
>
> <A HREF="http://expage.com/page/bonzorocket">Bonzo Rocket's Homepage!</A>
>
> To be honest, Bonzo Rocket is for my personal stress relief, but I'm
> giving
> all of you a chance to get down on some of this silliness in case that's
> how
> you deal with major stress too. Membership cards are truly forthcoming;
> all
> you have to do is ask for one. There is no stress in doing something to
> show
> my love for you (especially if it's a silly and fun thing).
>
> Love to all,
> Betty
>
> This is the end of the emergency broadcast system test. If this had been
> an
> actual mental heath emergency, you would have been instructed on where to
> send the straightjack "hope yur feelin' better" cards.
>
> Back to your regularly scheduled CP program.
>
> You know how I sometimes jokingly say "help me?" It ain't no joke today
> fellas.
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