Just wanted to say that re: Kraft dinner in your house you need to be
comfortable with whatever house rules you establish.  My husband lives on
canned beans and smokes (although he graciously only does that on the porch)
and I too don't have smoking in the house.   He is a hearty sort, I guess!!!
I wish he would eat Paleo and stop smoking, but I learned long ago you cannot
be evangelical about this stuff.

 However, I find when I get really angry about another person's eating or I
feel invaded, it usually has to do with my own unresolved issues about
food....either about having to eat paleo (and I HAVE to) or with unresolved
grief about what I have been through in a culture which told me I would get
healthy eating whole grains and dairy and blah blah.  The truth is that the
normal food pyramid nearly killed me...so sometimes when I find myself
getting angry over someone invading my "space" with ice cream and the like,
it has less to do with them, and more to do with me grieving and  the like.
Just my 2 cents!!!  I enjoy this list,

Elle