Mary, It might be worth considering continuing all that you are doing for you
and your children without trying to convince your husband  of anything at
all. It may be very difficult for him to continuously deal with preaching,
teaching, prostelytizing and seeing everything through your eyes. You are not
a nutcase but a zealot and this may be abrasive and overwhelming  to him.
Actions speak louder than words so go about your business without the
commentary and perhaps that which you perceive as sabotage will abate. Good
luck.