Susan,
I quit smoking about 2 years ago and smoking is no
longer allowed in my home.  Even my husband smokes
outside (no matter what the temperature!).  My
feelings are that it is my home and I have the right
to set down whatever rules I feel comfortable with.
It is my responsibility to make sure that those rules
are understood by my guests.  So, I guess I am trying
to say that while you have the right to decide what
goes on in your home, you may have overreacted if you
got on your soapbox ,-)  about the demon Kraft dinner
<VBG>.
Jane
(I wish I could set down that rule in my house, but my
hubby would pitch a fit, he says I can go on any diet
I want just don't force him to follow.)

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