Mark,
We are totally dairy free.  Yuch.  Took me forever to shop.  I have had some experience with a friends child.  Still hard to juggle the two meals at every meal thing.  My husband will not give up his cheese. Gets me down.  Love to cook, but this is no fun. Thanks for the support.
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>Not yet enough time. And have you *completely* eliminated all milk
>products, including cheese, yogurt, etc., and anything with lactose, whey,
>nonfat milk solids, and any other milk-derived substance? 
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