Hello B,

I find your question a very interesting.

Speaking for myself, during the 20 years of living independently,
these isues have come up for me from time to time.  However, before I
try an give you my vue as to what might be happening in your
situation, let me ask a few questions.

1.  Do you live on your own or with other?
2.  If you live with others, is it with family or room mates?

3.  Do you have a live-in attendant?
4.  In general, do you find it hard to talk to people and to be able
to exspress what your needs are?  If so, as this been an issue for you
all your life, or is this something that has happened more reasently?

Please feel free to Email me privitly if you would like.

Take care-Gary


On Sat, 6 Feb 1999, B.GIVEN wrote:

> I don't post on this list very often.
>
> I was wondering if any of you have difficulty controlling your temper and
> putting things into perspective?
>
> I blow up over nothing. I get so stressed over planning things because I am
> so dependant on other people.
>
> I was also wondering if any of you have trouble controlling your laughter?
>
> Thanks,
>
> Fiona
>