>Anyone,
regardless of their position in life, if they care about their work they
are
going to lose sleep. Is it a pissing contest? My question then, and one
that I
really do care to find an answer for, is what is the difference?

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In my mind the point is that in our high-pressure, fast-paced world, we
have to challenge ourselves to maintain a modicum of understanding, and
maybe once in a while, even a little compassion for the less powerful
player. We have to remember that nothing gets done without him, and it
serves no-one to break a good man who may have made a mistake. (And all the
more so if it turns out that he didn't.)

Mike E.