Karl:
Hey wait a minute! It just hit me. My husband wears size 44. He
isn't obese or even fat! He looks great! Like a biiig Man. Who told
you that you were fat? Maybe you need to take another look. Maybe your
eyes are seeing the past. Firm up what you have - if it isn't already -
and maybe you are already there. Good Luck to you. I am following your
progress very closely.
Beverle