cris, I feel like Vicky that you need to give us a break and stop judging
us. You have absolutely no sympathy nor compasion for anyone but you expect
them for yourself. I understand your life may be frought with difficulties
but that is no excuse to not show anyone an ounce of compassion.
----- Original Message -----
From: "j.ireland" <[log in to unmask]>
To: <[log in to unmask]>
Sent: Sunday, December 14, 2003 2:15 PM
Subject: Re: Slightly ticked off
> Chris,
>
> I had much the same situation as Carol. I prayed for you just after I
read
> your message. As a matter of fact, I sent you a message but I've
discovered
> that I have a bad habit of hitting the no button when I mean yes and then
> instead of sending the message it deletes it. Has to do with spell check
> being on. Anyway, I felt I needed more time to give you a response, which
> I'd probably have then written to you off list. Nevertheless, I apologize
> for any hurt you received. I know from this end and from the rest of the
> folks here, that there was no intended hurt. I tend to think like that
old
> Macdonald's commercial that says "you deserve a break today." Those on
> echurch deserve the break and benefit of grace as everybody at this time
of
> year is extra busy. Plus some of us have been sick. I'm in catch up mode
> so am still reading back messages, many of which I won't comment on. You
> are just as much loved and important her as anybody else is.
>
> Blessings,
> Vicki
>
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: "Chris Gilland" <[log in to unmask]>
> To: <[log in to unmask]>
> Sent: Sunday, December 14, 2003 5:09 AM
> Subject: Slightly ticked off
>
>
> > I really do feel very much in the background here... i rejoin this list
> > because I really felt you all were concerned and were wondering how I
was
> > doing... Well, why is it that when I post something very general, like,
> o,
> > I dunno, how yall dooen today, or maybe what's the weather like, or
maybe,
> > what's your dog eatin right now? You all answer me right away,
however...
> > when I post something very serious that I really need prayer about such
as
> I
> > did yesterday, you all just apparently, look it over like it means
> > nothing... I will not take this out of context.. i mean, you all
could!
> > sit here and tell me that you all were busy, and had things like a job
etc
> > that you have to deal with... OK, this may be true, but you all hold
the
> > phone right there for a second and listen to me... Now, i'm gonna try
not
> > to make this sound rude, as that is not my motive of approach, however,
I
> > think it's about time that you all here the honest to God truth from
me...
> > So, truth you all need? Truth you all get! Does it really take 2
minutes
> > just to simply say God, lord, Father, I dohn't know how to relate to
what
> > he's going through but, this is obviously putting him in mayyyyyyyyyjer
> > distress... Please, Lord, help him. Amen. What is my point by that?
It
> > wouldn't a taken yall 10 seconds if that to pray that prayer... i do
not
> > feel very confident that any one even is! praying though as I have
gotten
> > absolutely not even one reply on this, the fact that I haven't written
the
> > list any since that one post saying guess who's back... Some of you all
> > said, if you need prayer: quote: you know where to ask... Well, if I
> knew
> > where to ask, then how come there is absolutely seemingly, and I do want
> to
> > make real sure that you all understand, I'm not wagging the finger, or
> > blaming anyone specificly here... For all i know maybe you all are!
> > praying, but, the fact of the matter isn't so much are you all praying
as
> it
> > is, I feel I'm receiving absolutely no interaction from the list... You
> all
> > only write me when you feel it necessary, not when I find it necessary,
or
> > even more importantly: when God finds it necessary. i gotta say, i'm
> real
> > stumped at this point, and please don't anyone write me to say I am out
of
> > line by writing this mail. Maybe I am? maybe I'm not. if i am, i'm
> sorry,
> > but i am the type of person who very strongly believes in speaking my
> > mind... i do not like doing it, but I will when pushed over the
limit...
> > I'm gonna end on one last note just to say that I am extremely seriously
> > thinking about unsubscribing and never rejoining again regardless what
is
> > said about me here.. Granted it may would be my loss, and yeah? maybe
it
> > would, maybe it wouldn't... Again though, i make real clear: I'm not
> here
> > to play the funny bone game... When i ask for prayer, especially on
> > something this serious, I do expect if nothing else at least some, maybe
> not
> > much, but at least some! encouragement... i am not angry? however, i am
> > extremely annoyed with you all... There is an extremely fine line drawn
> > between the two, but yes, there is a difference... i'll leave it up to
> yall
> > to figure that one out, and if you can't, then Phil, perhaps you can
> explain
> > it to them as I'm cold, and freezing, I'm hungry, and I do not feel like
> > sitting at this machine all mnorning typing... You're a pastor so you
> > should be able to explain it... (Well, were a pastor rather)
> >
> > Phil, please call me when you can... I don't mind giving out my number
on
> > the list... heck, it's in my signature so it's not like it's not well
> > known...
> >
> > Call me:
> >
> > 704-296-2184
> >
> >
> > if I'm not here, just leave a msg.
> >
> >
> > if nothing else, I do expect at least! if not more, at least! one reply
to
> > this mail either on or off list, and i also! expect at least one reply
on
> > the mail I sent yesterday about my health problem.
> >
> >
> > Good day sunshines.
> >
> >
> > Chris.
> >
> >
> > msn or windows Messenger:
> >
> > [log in to unmask]
> >
> > E-mail: [log in to unmask]
> >
> > AOL messenger: gilland1981
> >
> > phone: 704-296-2184
> >
> > have a wonderful day!
> >
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