Thanks Paul.
 intend to keep at it.
In the past it was hard to consistantly do my wood working because of
problems with our relationship, or with others outside the house or just the
world in general dragging me down and not letting me sleep.
I hate to keep relligating responsibility to the devil but ain't he just a
great patsy?  hahahahahaha
Now that my marage is better and I am involving myself in a spiritual study
and way of life, everything seems better.

Matt

The definition of agape love is
A perminant selfsacrificing commitment to act in the best interest of
another person regardless of negative emotions or dificult cercomstances.
You must base your love for your spouse on your will and not on your
emotions.  Just as god did for us in John 3 16