I sure love how you write of God, I too have never spoken in tongues, though
like you, I have friends who do. Some in the past have even insisted it was
a sign of a true believer, which I vehemently reject. If I am really sad, I
cry, I don't say anything, but God knows, I am certain that He understands
the language of tears. I appreciate those who find release in praying in
tongues, I've just never done it myself. 
Blessinggs!
Rhonda