Dear Sharon H,
Loving, this made me cry. How beautiful sweet and so very sad.
Loving, where's the cleanex, please?
I want to give you all a big squeeze because I love each and every
one of you, my precious loving ones.
Lovingly in Christ,
Pat Ferguson
At 05:43 PM 4/7/2011, you wrote:
>The following story is neither political, religious, nor fiction,
>and I think you'll like it because it's true. This has been around
>but too good not
>to send each time it is received.
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>The Sandpiper
>by Robert Peterson
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>
>She was six years old when I first met her on the beach near where I live..
>I drive to this beach, a distance of three or four miles, whenever the world
>begins to close in on me. She was building a sand castle or something
>and looked up, her eyes as blue as the sea.
>
>
>'Hello,' she said.
>
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>I answered with a nod, not really in the mood to bother with a small child.
>
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>'I'm building,' she said.
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>'I see that. What is it?' I asked, not really caring.
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>'Oh, I don't know, I just like the feel of sand.'
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>That sounds good, I thought, and slipped off my shoes.
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>A sandpiper glided by.
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>'That's a joy,' the child said.
>
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>'It's a what?'
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>'It's a joy. My mama says sandpipers come to bring us joy.'
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>The bird went gliding down the beach. Good-bye joy, I muttered to myself,
>hello pain, and turned to walk on. I was depressed, my life seemed
>completely out of balance.
>
>
>'What's your name?' She wouldn't give up.
>
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>'Robert,' I answered. 'I'm Robert Peterson.'
>
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>'Mine's Wendy... I'm six.'
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>'Hi, Wendy.'
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>She giggled. 'You're funny,' she said.
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>In spite of my gloom, I laughed too and walked on.
>Her musical giggle followed me.
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>'Come again, Mr. P,' she called. 'We'll have another happy day.'
>
>
>The next few days consisted of a group of unruly Boy Scouts, PTA meetings,
>and an ailing mother. The sun was shining one morning as I took my hands out
>of the dishwater. I need a sandpiper, I said to myself, gathering up my coat.
>
>
>The ever-changing balm of the seashore awaited me. The breeze was
>chilly but I strode along, trying to recapture the serenity I needed.
>
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>'Hello, Mr. P,' she said. 'Do you want to play?'
>
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>'What did you have in mind?' I asked, with a twinge of annoyance.
>
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>'I don't know. You say.'
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>'How about charades?' I asked sarcastically.
>
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>The tinkling laughter burst forth again. 'I don't know what that is..'
>
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>'Then let's just walk.'
>
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>Looking at her, I noticed the delicate fairness of her face.
>'Where do you live?' I asked.
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>'Over there.' She pointed toward a row of summer cottages.
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>Strange, I thought, in winter.
>
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>'Where do you go to school?'
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>'I don't go to school. Mommy says we're on vacation.'
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>She chattered little girl talk as we strolled up the beach, but my mind was
>on other things. When I left for home, Wendy said it had been a happy day.
>Feeling surprisingly better, I smiled at her and agreed.
>
>
>Three weeks later, I rushed to my beach in a state of near panic. I
>was in no =
>mood to even greet Wendy. I thought I saw her mother on the porch and felt
>like demanding she keep her child at home.
>
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>'Look, if you don't mind,' I said crossly when Wendy caught up with me, 'I'd
>rather be alone today.' She seemed unusually pale and out of breath.
>
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>'Why?' she asked.
>
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>I turned to her and shouted, 'Because my mother died!' and thought,
>My God, why was I saying this to a little child?
>
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>'Oh,' she said quietly, 'then this is a bad day.'
>
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>'Yes,' I said, 'and yesterday and the day before and -- oh, go away!'
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>'Did it hurt?' she inquired.
>
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>'Did what hurt?' I was exasperated with her, with myself.
>
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>'When she died?'
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>'Of course it hurt!' I snapped, misunderstanding,
>wrapped up in myself. I strode off.
>
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>A month or so after that, when I next went to the beach, she wasn't there..
>Feeling guilty, ashamed, and admitting to myself I missed her, I went up
>to the cottage after my walk and knocked at the door. A drawn looking
>young woman with honey-colored hair opened the door.
>
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>'Hello,' I said, 'I'm Robert Peterson. I missed your little girl today
>and wondered where she was.'
>
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>'Oh yes, Mr. Peterson, please come in. Wendy spoke of you so much.
>I'm afraid I allowed her to bother you. If she was a nuisance,
>please, accept my apologies.'
>
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>'Not at all -- she's a delightful child.' I said, suddenly realizing
>that I meant what I had just said.
>
>
>'Wendy died last week, Mr. Peterson. She had leukemia.
>Maybe she didn't tell you.'
>
>
>Struck dumb, I groped for a chair. I had to catch my breath.
>
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>'She loved this beach, so when she asked to come, we couldn't say no.
>She seemed so much better here and had a lot of what she called happy days.
>But the last few weeks, she declined rapidly...' Her voice faltered, 'She left
>something for you, if only I can find it. Could you wait a moment
>while I look?'
>
>
>I nodded stupidly, my mind racing for something to say to this lovely young
>woman. She handed me a smeared envelope with 'MR. P' printed in bold
>childish letters. Inside was a drawing in bright crayon hues -- a
>yellow beach,
>a blue sea, and a brown bird. Underneath was carefully printed:
>
>
>A SANDPIPER TO BRING YOU JOY.
>
>
>Tears welled up in my eyes, and a heart that had almost forgotten to love
>opened wide. I took Wendy's mother in my arms. 'I'm so sorry, I'm so sorry,
>I'm so sorry,' I uttered over and over, and we wept together. The
>precious little
>picture is framed now and hangs in my study. Six words -- one for each year
>of her life -- that speak to me of harmony, courage, and undemanding love.
>
>
>A gift from a child with sea blue eyes and hair the color of sand
>-- who taught me the gift of love.
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>NOTE: This is a true story sent out by Robert Peterson. It happened over 20
>years ago and the incident changed his life forever.. It serves as a reminder
>to all of us that we need to take time to enjoy living and life and
>each other.
>The price of hating other human beings is loving oneself less.
>
>
>Life is so complicated, the hustle and bustle of everyday traumas
>can make us lose focus about what is truly important
>or what is only a momentary setback or crisis..
>
>
>This week, be sure to give your loved ones an extra hug, and by all means,
>take a moment.... even if it is only ten seconds, to stop and smell the roses.
>
>
>This comes from someone's heart, and is read by many
>and now I share it with you...
>
>
>May God Bless everyone who receives this! There are NO coincidences!
>
>
>Everything that happens to us happens for a reason. Never brush aside
>anyone as insignificant. Who knows what they can teach us?
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>I wish for you, a Sandpiper.
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