Well, I kind of subscribe to the saying that if you have to resort to foul language as a regular means of expressing yourself, then you are mostly either uneducated or a very angry person!!! However, I totally agree with your approach to the issue, and I am also completely appalled that THAT was seen as the overwhelming issue at your schools, OH MY!!!! It's a good thing that I don't drink wine with those educators, lol...it would be interesting to see their assessment of me at certain times!!! Ah well, I just don't want to be offensive to all the different sensibilities in here. If I need a gutter day, I have my local bar to hang out in, or scammers to mess with!!! Thanks again for your kind words, Ron!!!
Love,
Bren
Hi Bren,
I think that over-reacting to any non-standard language is foolish. As a
former high school teacher I spent most of my career working with students
who faced a variety of special challenges. One school I worked at had 600+
students with varying degrees of special needs. A few weeks after a
neighboring school had a student stabbed and killed in a stairwell, our
school staff was asked to identify the most pressing behavioral issue in our
school. I expected topics like bullying, weapons, fighting, or similar
topics. However, the staff identified foul language as our most pressing
problem. Clearly I represented a minority perspective, but I think that
anyone who reacts so strongly to foul language really should question the
source of their reaction.
Best Wishes,
Ron
> -----Original Message-----
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> Subject: Re: Happy Holidays/Major apology
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> I am humbled by your reply, Ron, and thank you. I know they are just
> words, and sometimes they just make you feel better momentarily, lol, but
> for the most part I like to conduct myself like a lady, and this certainly
> wasn't a shining moment towards that concept!!! I am going to try a
bit
> harder to remember the adage, "Look twice, then again, then again,
before
> you hit Send"!!!
>
> Love,
> Bren
>
> Hi Bren,
>
> Everyone makes mistakes. Don't worry about it. Everyone here has heard
the
> language before. Such words only have the power that we give to them.
> After
> all, they are just words, and their meanings are arbitrary.
>
> Best Wishes,
> Ron
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