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I doubt that the problem is lack of wisdom on the part of young ladies, and 
I don't think the motives of the young men are ulterior to the young ladies, 
as that suggests the young ladies are completely unaware of the "motives" of 
the men and that whatever benefits accrue from cohabitation largely goes to 
the men. These adults (young ladies or men) knowingly enter this type of 
relationship and mutually benefit from it. Also, the fact that many young 
ladies agree to enter (and remain in) such relationships makes a statement: 
they do not want to wait for the man who values them as "the one they were 
waiting for."

Regards,
Uche.


----- Original Message ----- 
From: "VERA R CROWELL" <[log in to unmask]>
To: <[log in to unmask]>
Sent: Monday, August 27, 2007 8:50 PM
Subject: Re: Print this for your daughters!


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>        AAM ANNUAL GENERAL MEETING - September 29, 2007. Don't Miss 
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> I wasn't advocating leaving out the males. However, while we're teaching 
> them these values, it's better if they aren't already immersed in taking 
> advantage of a woman they consider "second best" while they're waiting for 
> their "soul mate."
>
> If young ladies are wise to their ulterior motives, it's better for them 
> and the young men because the men realize (hopefully) the ladies are not 
> going to be anyone's second best and will wait for the man who values them 
> as "the one they were waiting for."
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> "In the days before volcanoes were invented, lava had to be hand carried 
> down from the mountains and poured on the sleeping villagers.
> This took a great deal of time."
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> ----- Original Message -----
> From: Emilie Ngo Nguidjol <[log in to unmask]>
> Date: Monday, August 27, 2007 5:59 pm
> Subject: Re: Print this for your daughters!
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>>          AAM ANNUAL GENERAL MEETING - September 29, 2007. Don't Miss 
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>>  Why leave our sons behind if we want to educate children about
>> relationships? So much of the teaching is directed to our daughters
>> only, yet so little to our sons on this topic. Success of a marriage
>> depends on both the man and the woman If we want to foster healthy
>> relationships, it does not suffice to "teach young women to say
>> "NO!!"". We must start with teaching young men what is important in a
>> relationship (of any kind) and the value of respect of the OTHER (the
>> woman, in this case).
>>
>>  --Emilie
>>
>>  ----- Original Message -----
>>  From: VERA R CROWELL <[log in to unmask]>
>>  Date: Monday, August 27, 2007 2:31 pm
>>  Subject: Print this for your daughters!
>>  To: [log in to unmask]
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>>  >          AAM ANNUAL GENERAL MEETING - September 29, 2007. Don't
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>>  >  Very good reasons to teach young women to say "NO!!"
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>>  > 
>> http://lifestyle.msn.com/Relationships/CouplesandMarriage/ArticleLHJ.aspx?cp-documentid=1070537
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>>  >  "In the days before volcanoes were invented, lava had to be hand
>>  > carried down from the mountains and poured on the sleeping villagers.
>>  >  This took a great deal of time."
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