Rhonda,

I know a few people who have gone through that same thing but frankly, I
can't even guess what it must be like for you guys.  There are support
groups for such things and even though they may not be Christian, I know
they would be helpful and encouraging.  Of course, there is the age old
problem of getting to such a meeting.  Anyhow, we are praying so let us know
how it goes.

Phil.