Phil,
Hehehehehehehe! Good one about waiting till you're married to wash your
feet! No, you just need to behave yourself and lay off begging for money.
Seriously though, I think it would be cool if you do a foot washing ceremony
in your house church. It could be spontaneous, (unplanned), and can include
massage, or maybe friendship communion or some other small, meaningful
service to each other.
Sharon