I wish we could think of good comebacks on the spur of the moment. 
Humor helps but I am at a loss. Judy's response is similar to mine 
but sometimes we suffer indignity graciously.

At 08:11 PM 3/19/2006, you wrote:
>a few weeks ago i went into a fast foof place and was
>standing at the counter and a "lady?" in back putting
>together orders and with a headset for drive through
>said "what yougoing to have shaky?" i looked at her a
>second or two and she said "what you want, i'll get it
>for you." i was so taken back by this that i just gave
>her my order. judy was incensed when i told her about
>this.
>
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>
> > Hi Linda,
> > I don't think you were wrong to be offended, but
> > things like that are going to happen.
> > If I weren't so tired, I would launch into a too
> > long explanation of why I too would be offended, but
> > there's no point.  For some reason, I'm always told
> > not to be offened, yet
> > the same people who tell me that get offended over
> > comments about their weight, height ect.  I think
> > very differently about this issue than most people
> > do.
> > I think it's ok to feel offended - or whatever you
> > may feel, but consider the source and keep it in
> > perspective.  You're right to let Case decide for
> > himself.
> >
>
>
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