Hey Phil,
I hope that we are doing that.  I almost suspect that he'll ask to
leave after he gets the goodies, so to speak.  Man, I hope that I'm
wrong, but this has been my life for almost five years now.  I'm not
about to let down my guard.  He hasn't earned it.
Kathy


At 12:11 PM 12/17/2005, you wrote:
>Kathy,
>
>I well understand the continual and perpetual feeling of suspicion.  We
>still live with it every day since our daughter lives with us.  Yes, she
>pays rent but we are suspect concerning literally everything she tells us
>because we know it isn't always true.  You can only do what you can only do.
>As a Christian, I would say, let your heart be your guide but you cannot
>allow that luxury when it comes to any level of criminal activities.  I
>remind Gretchen often, when we have little talks, that according to the law,
>she is still considered a criminal and a felon at that who can go to jail,
>prison actually, for almost any reason if she screws up.  Chris isn't at the
>level of Gretchen, it doesn't appear, but you cannot trust him regardless of
>what he says.  He is not going to change over night.  All you can do is
>still be his mom but keep being suspicious and keep praying for him.
>Manipulative people quickly learn how to control others.  You only have to
>stand fast and be as as wise as serpents and harmless as doves.
>
>Phil.