Kathy,
Unfortunately sometimes we are our own worst enemies.  He is doing
everything he can to destroy his life.  The justice system isn't helping any
either.  It seems they never heard of an ounce of prevention is worth a
pound of cure.
I will keep praying for the Lord's will to be done in this situation.
I am still praying for you and the rest of your family also.
Huggs,
Virgie and Hoshi
----- Original Message -----
From: "Kathy Du Bois" <[log in to unmask]>
To: <[log in to unmask]>
Sent: Monday, December 12, 2005 10:46 AM
Subject: In other matters,


> Just in case any of you were wondering about the latest about
> Christopher, he's lucky that he's not living here any more because I
> would have a very hard time fighting the urge to wring his
> neck!   GRRR.  For those of you who don't know, that's parent talk
> for, "I'm frustrated!!!"
>        He called me on Saturday evening, around 11:00 pm. to let me know
> that his wallet has been stolen, again.  He's out his rent money.  I
> suspect his girl friend's little brother, and I believe Chris does
> too, , again for the second time, but   You should have heard his
> girl friend protesting and protecting her little brother  in the
> background.  Blood is definitely thicker than morality in that house,
> but considering the family's history, blood is about all they've got!
>          Then, we got a call around 6:00 am on Sunday morning from
> McDonalds.  One of Chris's coe workers was looking for him.  Chris
> had borrowed his car for the night.  Evidently, this guy was working
> the night shift.  Anyway, Chris was more than a half hour overdue for
> returning it.  So, let's see, Chris has no insurance and, with his
> wallet missing, he has no license, but he's driving someone
> else's  car and, since he probably didn't get caught, he can go on
> believing that he has done nothing wrong.
>        Chris actually called home again on Sunday afternoon, but he
> refused
> to answer any questions or give out any information.  I'm assuming
> that the car must have been returned at some point, but Chris
> wouldn't say.  He basicly reminded me that I wasn't responsible for
> him any more and hung up on me.  I"m angry more than anything at the
> fact that Chris can just continue to get away with this stupidity
> because there are bigger fish to fry, so to speak, in the legal system;.
>        In the news right now, here in main, is a case of a trucker who
> killed a woman last summer.  He had 63 prior traffic violations and
> 22 license suspensions, but the courts were only going to charge him
> with a misdemeanor until, finally, this weekend, his blood results
> came back and they found traces of pot in it.  Now, finally, he will
> face man slaughter charges, but this could have been prevented if
> someone had wanted to take his behavior more seriously so much
> earlier.    So I know that, unless God moves in some very mysterious
> ways, chris could be headed down that same road of just laughing at
> our justice system and it makes me angry because I know that he is so
> much more capable than that!
> Kathy