victims are often shamed into silence so unless asked by a skilled
professional, that child is going to suffer until she's old enough to leave
home, or get help at her breaking point. 

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> [Original Message]
> From: Kathleen Salkin <[log in to unmask]>
> To: <[log in to unmask]>
> Date: 3/22/2006 8:50:23 PM
> Subject: Re: I need some more advice
>
> She could be too afraid to talk.  Kids keep secrets better than you'd  
> think especially if they've been threatened.
>
> Kat
>
> On 22 Mar 2006, at 23:42, Anthony Arnold wrote:
>
> > Actually don't know what the guy could be hiding because you would  
> > think
> > that the little girl would be telling things at school.
> >
> > Thanks,
> > Anthony
> > Visit my website at www.anthonyarnold.net
> >
> > -----Original Message-----
> > From: Cerebral Palsy List [mailto:[log in to unmask]] On  
> > Behalf Of
> > ken barber
> > Sent: Wednesday, March 22, 2006 8:11 PM
> > To: [log in to unmask]
> > Subject: Re: I need some more advice
> >
> > i am not a lawyer, but common sense says the husband
> > is trying to keep something hidden.
> >
> > --- Anthony Arnold <[log in to unmask]> wrote:
> >
> >> Friends,
> >>
> >>
> >>
> >> I'm sure you remember my posting a couple of weeks
> >> ago concerning my friend
> >> with cerebral palsy whose husband is verbally
> >> abusive and doesn't help her
> >> with anything.  I'm not sure if you know that I also
> >> have the same attendant
> >> as this gal, and this morning the attendant was at
> >> this couple's house
> >> before coming to mine, and the attendant was told to
> >> leave or the husband is
> >> getting a restraining order against her.  I know
> >> that I'm a very intelligent
> >> guy, who shouldn't be asking this because I feel
> >> it's basic common sense,,
> >> but does he have any grounds to do this action?  I
> >> have personally had this
> >> attendant for almost 5 years, and haven't had any
> >> problems which might lead
> >> to this action.  Sure when the daughter is home from
> >> school, the attendant
> >> talks to her, but I don't see any problems with that
> >> especially when my
> >> friend is right there.
> >>
> >>
> >>
> >> Thanks,
> >>
> >> Anthony
> >>
> >> Visit my website at  <http://www.anthonyarnold.net>
> >> www.anthonyarnold.net
> >>
> >>
> >>
> >
> >
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